“Men are from Mars and Women from Venus”, I bet you have heard this saying umpteen number of times, but have you really thought what it actually means?
No, no it does not mean that men and women have originated from different planets and then finally descended on Earth, it simply means that the thinking process of both men and women are entirely different. Let me not sound too modest, but it’s a universally known fact that women are mentally and emotionally much stronger than men and it definitely does not mean that men are inferior or superior. Both are equal.
So what attracts a woman to a man… is it just physicality of a man that a woman finds sexy? There is no denying that physical attributes play a very vital role in making a man irresistible and sexy, but there is much more than that too. So here we list out some of the qualities women find attractive in men and you never know, incorporating these points may make the man reach his dream woman soon!!
Sense Of Humour
Any man who can make her woman smile and laugh has the biggest asset up his sleeve. In this age of social media, if a woman laughs while chatting with you or smiles even when she receives a message from you, believe me half your job is done. Sense of humour is very essential in making a man sexy and adorable.
But that doesn’t mean that you don a clown’s cap and start doing things like a joker or for that matter be loud and annoying. You can even do it with your one liners, your puns, a few well-placed comments and your observations and trust me there is nothing sexier to a woman than a man who can make her genuinely laugh.
The first impression is the last impression, they say. We all know that when a man sees an attractive woman he looks through her like an x-ray, well, I have a little secret too, woman also sees attractive men twice, not like an x-ray machine, but observes the minutest details. So if you guys want to be sexy in front of a girl, the trick is very simple… Dress well!!
To women, a man who is well-groomed and well-dressed and also takes pride in his appearance seriously is quite a turn on. That does not mean that you change your style or adapt a particular style, you just need to look clean and comfortable like wearing a well fitted shirt, a good pair of jeans and of course good shoes.
And don’t forget that perfume. Body odour is a big NO NO!! There really is someone for everyone, and a sense of style isn’t about adopting a particular style of dress, but just feeling happy and comfortable in whatever you are wearing.
Nothing is sexier to a woman than a man who loves children!! Women inherently are maternal in nature who love kids and if her man also loves kids, then it’s a cherry on the topping. She loves to see how good you are with kids, whether you are the friendly types with them, you love to play and keep them engrossed.
A man who is good at handling kids is in a way gaining brownie points in the eyes of his woman. So all you guys, grab the nearest little one in your home and start showering love on them, I bet many girls would be swooning for you after this. And don’t take it as a joke. I’m serious, you are sexy if you love kids.
Politeness Is the Key
Are you the man who shouts and is brash and rude to others, watch out then, you are not in the good books of your woman. This is one of the most turn offs for a woman. Women always see how you behave with other people, so whether you are shouting at your kin, or on the poor waiter at a restaurant, your points are being deducted every moment.
Women see what kind of man you are by how you treat other people especially other women. She also sees how helpful and kind hearted you are, not only with your age mates, but also with all the age groups and even to the animals. Show her what kind of man you are by how you treat those around you and trust be she would find you really attractive and sexy.
Trust me when I say this, being a woman, we love attention, we crave for attention and a man who gives that to a woman, bang on you’re the sexiest guy on this planet Earth!! Get it right in the first go by letting her know how beautiful she looks, or slide your hand a little on her petite waist as you go for a night out. Don’t be aggressive, but subtly let her know that you’re attracted to her. Women love being desired and feeling attractive.
You definitely won’t go wrong and would become sexier in her eyes.
Stubble… Stubble All The Way
There is no doubt that a bit of a stubble surely helps. Rewind and think, don’t women dig on heroes who have a little stubble or the two-day unshaven look. That exudes sexiness and thus a woman gets attracted to the same. And if that stubble is supported by a good height and a great haircut, the combination is deadly.
Woman hates long hair, so guys rush to the nearest salon and get your hair chop chop!!
I know in this department, you cannot do anything as having a deep voice is God’s gift and the men who have it are the luckiest people. Women love men with deep set eyes that can melt your heart away and a deep, husky voice is something which makes a woman go weak in their knees. So even if you don’t have a husky voice, you can still claim your sexiness by looking deep into your beloved’s eyes and tell her that she means the world to you.
Men…you can’t live with them and you can’t live without them. Sometimes they are so annoying and sometimes they are incredibly sexy and irresistible. All said and done, men just need to know what is sexy in the eyes of a woman and everyone lives happily ever after!! What are you waiting for? Find out if you have the qualities women find attractive in men.